From the monthly archives:

April 2011

I asked last week what were the most powerful lessons you learned from your father. Regarding the lessons we have learned from our fathers, recognize the strength in the answers from a father’s perspective. Teaching us to be strong seems to be a common thread: Toughen up and keep your chin up and out. Don’t [...]

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Twenty 23 years ago…

by Karel on April 18, 2011

Twenty 23 years ago, at my father’s death bed, we finally connected in a deeply human way by sharing fears and secrets while my husband and son watched from the corner of the room. My father regretted not being emotionally available to me for most of my life but assured me that it would change [...]

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At the age of seventeen…

by Karel on April 11, 2011

At the age of seventeen, I attended a teen party across town from my house. My curfew set for midnight seemed hours away. I had the pleasure of engaging in a great conversation and hand holding with a handsome young man. He lived in another town, and life just didn’t seem fair that the magic [...]

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It’s easy to see the legacy..

by Karel on April 4, 2011

In a way, it’s easy to see the legacy our mothers gave us. Relationships with our fathers, however, are often a bit more complex. But their lessons and legacy are just as important. The Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C. portrays a strong fatherly expression. The confident set of Abraham Lincoln’s facial features instills a sense [...]

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Last week I promised fatherly advice…

by Karel on April 2, 2011

Last week I promised fatherly advice, so here is what several women learned from their dads. Get ready for some answers that practically jump off the page due to the force of the emotion. Keep your word—hold true to your commitments and obligations. The first thing I envisioned when I read this piece of advice [...]

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